The story of the “first female student at Harvard College” is one that is not easily relatable to most of us.
“I was in the dorm room with some guys, and one of them asked me if I was a virgin,” she said.
“And I said no.
So I just laughed.
I didn’t say anything.”
But the 26-year-old Harvard graduate says she had been given the “wrong” information, and she had no regrets about the experience.
“It was a weird experience, but it was something I wanted to do,” she told Global News.
“When you’re in the process of making a life for yourself, sometimes you’re asked the wrong questions.
I guess that’s why I was in that dorm room.”
She continued, “I think it’s important to acknowledge the importance of being a virgin, and it’s a lot of work, especially if you’re a young woman.”
Her story is a tale of the triumphs and tribulations of a woman who had an adventurous spirit.
But in a world where young people are taught that sexual purity is the default state of being, she said, “People don’t really know what it’s like to be sexually open.
That’s a huge misconception.
It’s not something that everyone thinks about.
It shouldn’t be the default.”
She went on to explain the misconceptions of what being a “sexual virgin” means: “When I tell people about my experience, they think it means that I don’t have any sex.
They think it says that I’m promiscuous, or promiscuously promiscious.
But it’s not.”
But she said the idea of being sexually open is not just about sexual activity.
It’s also about what kind of relationship you have with your partner.
She added, “It’s not like you’re the one who’s going to be promiscuity.
You can be asexual, you can have sex, you just can’t have sex with somebody you don’t love.
It is your relationship with that person that determines if you’ll be promissed or not.””
Asexuality is a choice, not a condition,” she continued.
“That’s what you’re not allowed to choose.”
In the past, she’s been sexually open to a partner who was also asexual.
But she says that’s no longer the case.
“The majority of people who have been sexually active in their life have had non-sexual relationships,” she explained.
“They have never had a partner that they’ve wanted to be with for a long time.
But they’ve been sexually sexually active, and the sex has always been there.””
When I was sexually active with my boyfriend, he was asexual and had never had sex with anyone.”
She said she had a similar experience with a man, and that’s how she felt when she first told her story to Global News in 2016.
“I thought he was the most beautiful person in the world,” she recalled.
“But I was still very sexual.
I wasn’t in a relationship.
I just knew that my boyfriend was the one for me.”
In 2017, she had her first sexual encounter with a male partner, and said that experience has changed her life.
“It changed my life in many ways, but mainly it made me realize that sexual pleasure is something that is very subjective, and is not really that well understood,” she added.
“Sexuality is not a choice; it’s something that happens to you and your partner.”
She explained that she felt more connected to her partner and that she was able to have a more open relationship with him, and feel more comfortable in it.
The young woman said she has not been able to give up sex with her boyfriend, and says that it’s “a very strong, healthy thing.”
“I think I have a pretty strong sense of who I am, and I’m kind of proud of who my sexuality is,” she elaborated.
“So I think I can make choices about my sexuality and not feel as guilty about it.”